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The Job Nobody Agreed To

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Ask most leaders how their team is doing and they will tell you people are stretched. Ask them why and they will usually point to volume, to the pace of work, to the season. What they are less likely to say, because the language for it is harder to find, is that a significant portion of their team is carrying work that was never formally assigned to them, was never removed from someone else, and does not clearly belong to any defined role on the org chart.


That is role confusion. And it is one of the quieter strains in organizational life, precisely because it does not announce itself as a structural failure. It announces itself as fatigue.


A team member who seems disengaged. A high performer who is quietly burning out. A capable person who keeps dropping things that, on paper, should be well within their ability to manage. Organizations tend to read those signals as individual problems. What they are, more often, is the predictable output of a structure where the work has outgrown the clarity of who owns what.


What Role Confusion Actually Looks Like


The Gallup organization has spent decades studying the relationship between role clarity and employee engagement. Their data is consistent: employees who strongly agree that they know what is expected of them are significantly more engaged, more productive, and more likely to stay. The percentage of employees who strongly agree? Roughly half. Which means at any given moment, about half of your team is carrying uncertainty about the fundamental question of what their job actually is.


That uncertainty does not stay abstract. It shows up in concrete, costly ways. Decisions get made by whoever has the most time rather than whoever has the most authority. Work gets duplicated because two people assumed it belonged to someone else, then both moved to fill the gap. High performers absorb informal responsibilities because they are capable and no one stops them, until the informal load exceeds what any one person can sustain. And the leader ends up mediating ambiguity that should never have required their involvement in the first place.

"When everyone is responsible, no one is accountable."  — Patrick Lencioni, The Five Dysfunctions of a Team

The phrase is familiar because the pattern is universal. It shows up in organizations of two people and organizations of two hundred. It is not a size problem. It is a clarity problem. And clarity is not something that emerges naturally as organizations grow. It has to be built, and it has to be maintained, because the work will always move faster than the structure unless someone is watching the gap.


A 2023 SHRM report found that unclear roles and responsibilities were among the top five factors contributing to workplace conflict. Conflict is an expensive symptom. The underlying condition is structural. Two people in conflict over who owns a decision are not a personality problem waiting to be managed. They are a design problem waiting to be solved. 


The Hidden Cost Nobody Budgets For


There is a productivity cost to role confusion that most organizations never quantify because they are too busy absorbing it. Research on cognitive load consistently finds that ambiguity about responsibility is one of the most persistent drains on executive function. A person who is not sure whether a task belongs to them spends energy on that uncertainty before they ever begin the task. They hedge. They check. They avoid. They wait for someone else to move first.


Multiply that pattern across a team and across a year, and you have a significant portion of your organizational capacity spent on navigating ambiguity rather than doing work. It does not show up on a time sheet. It shows up in the gap between what your team is theoretically capable of and what actually gets done.

"No one can serve two masters. For you will hate one and love the other; you will be devoted to one and despise the other."  — Matthew 6:24, NLT

The context Jesus was addressing was devotion, not organizational structure. But the principle underneath it holds in both domains. A person divided between two competing allegiances cannot give full capacity to either. The same is true when someone is divided between two competing sets of expectations, two informal managers, two job descriptions running simultaneously. The division is not a character flaw. It is an arithmetic problem. Attention is finite. When it is split without a structure to resolve the split, something always suffers.


What suffers most is rarely the urgent work. Urgent work gets done because urgency enforces itself. What suffers is the slower, more important work: the thinking, the planning, the relationship maintenance, the work that builds toward something rather than just responding to something. That is the work role confusion quietly starves, and it is the work most organizations are most desperate to have more of. 


Why Leaders Do Not Solve It Sooner


Most leaders know, at some level, that role clarity is a problem in their organization. They feel the friction. They see the dropped work. They notice who ends up carrying what no one agreed to. What they often do not do is treat it as something to solve systematically, because solving it requires a kind of uncomfortable precision that feels, in the moment, like it will create more conflict than it resolves.


Naming who owns something means naming who does not. Documenting decision rights means some people lose informal authority they have been exercising for years. Clarifying a job description means having a direct conversation about the gap between what someone thinks their job is and what the organization actually needs it to be. These are not comfortable conversations. They are, however, cheaper than the alternative.

"The cost of not having the conversation is always higher than the cost of having it."  — Patrick Lencioni, The Advantage

Patrick Lencioni, whose work on organizational health has shaped how many leadership teams approach dysfunction, has written extensively about the willingness to have difficult conversations as a prerequisite for team health. The organizations that avoid role clarity conversations in the name of keeping peace are not actually keeping peace. They are deferring conflict while the interest compounds. The conversation that feels risky in year one becomes the crisis that feels unavoidable in year three.


There is a version of stewardship that applies here that goes beyond the financial. The people on your team gave you their working hours, their expertise, and a significant portion of their identity. They came to build something. When the structure does not tell them clearly what they are building or where their ownership begins and ends, that gift is being wasted, not through malice but through neglect. That neglect has a cost, and it is paid by the people who can least afford it.

"Just say a simple Yes or No, so that you will not sin. Anything beyond this is from the evil one."  — Matthew 5:37, NLT

The simplicity Jesus was speaking to was about integrity of word. The organizational application is this: structures that require constant interpretation, constant clarification, and constant negotiation of who owns what are not simple in the way healthy things are simple. They are complex in the way avoidance is complex. A clear yes and a clear no, applied to who owns a decision, who carries a function, who is responsible for an outcome, does more for team health than any amount of vision talk. 


What Clarity Actually Requires


Solving role confusion is not a matter of redrawing the org chart. Org charts show reporting relationships. What most teams lack is something more specific: documented ownership of decisions, functions, and outcomes. Who makes the call when this comes up? Who is responsible if this does not get done? Those two questions, answered with specificity for the work that actually matters in your organization, do more for role clarity than any structural diagram.


The leaders who get this right tend to do one thing consistently: they audit informally before they restructure formally. They look at what work is actually being done, not what the job descriptions say. They identify where the informal structure has drifted from the formal one. And they close the gap with honesty rather than documentation, because a document that does not reflect how the work actually flows is not a solution. It is a fiction that creates its own category of confusion.


That audit is not a long process. But it requires the kind of outside perspective that is genuinely difficult to generate from inside the system you are trying to see clearly. When you are inside it, the informal structures feel like the normal ones. They always have. The gaps are invisible because you have been navigating them so long they stopped registering as gaps.


An honest external look at how work and ownership are actually distributed in your organization is one of the fastest ways to surface what the internal view has learned to overlook. That is not a criticism of the people running the organization. It is how proximity works. It is why the most effective leaders in almost every sector eventually seek a perspective that is not inside the building. 


The Hidden Strain Self-Diagnostic includes a full assessment of role confusion alongside the other four strains. Free. Takes about 10 minutes.  strain.kingdomplanning.org 


If you are ready to close the gap between how your organization is structured on paper and how work actually moves through it, that conversation starts here.  kingdomplanning.org/book-online  |  To bring this to your team or event: updegraffj@kingdomplanning.org


Stay blessed,

Joshua M. Updegraff, Founder of Kingdom Planning LLC and LSSGB
Joshua M. Updegraff, Founder of Kingdom Planning LLC and LSSGB

 
 
 

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